Why Heritage Day Is Important To The South African Nation

Why Heritage Day Is Important To The South African Nation

Why Heritage Day Is Important To The South African Nation

 

Heritage Day or Braai Day as it has colloquially become known, is celebrated on the 24th of September. South Africans are encouraged to celebrate their cultural traditions and beliefs and the rich diversity that makes us proudly South African.

The day was declared a holiday during the late former president Nelson Mandela’s tenure.

Heritage day should not be seen as a mere holiday and a day off, it should be an opportunity to embrace your cultural values and traditions.

Braai4Heritage

Archbishop Emeritus Desmond Tutu became the national spokesperson for National Braai Day in 2007 and the name was changed to Braai4Heritage.

Archbishop Desmond Tutu said, “We’re going to have this wonderful thing on the 24th of this month when we all gather round one fire. It’s a fantastic thing, a very simple idea. Irrespective of your politics, of your culture, of your race, of your whatever, hierdie ding doen ons saam [‘we do this thing together’]… just South Africans doing one thing together, and recognizing that we are a fantastic nation.”

Archbishop Emeritus Tutu thought that the idea of using the braai to unite people was a very good one as it is common for people from various cultures in South Africa to gather together around a fire to celebrate.

Why is Heritage Day Important?

It is important for all South Africans to celebrate our culture and heritage against the background of our unique diversity. In so doing, we build pride in ourselves and our nation as we remember the difficulties of the past and share in the victories of the present and raise hope for the future.

South African Culture

South Africa has been legendarily referred to as the rainbow nation because it is made up of so many diverse cultures and religions.  To name but a few in South Africa, we have:

  • Zulu
  • Xhosa
  • Tswana
  • Ndebele
  • Khoisan
  • Hindu
  • Muslim
  • Afrikaner

All of these people are united by calling South Africa their home and has their own unique culture and identity.

Interesting Heritage Facts

South Africa has eight places declared as World Heritage Sites, these are:

  • The iSimangaliso Greater St. Lucia Wetland Park
  • The uKhahlamba Drakensberg Park
  • Robben Island
  • The Fossil Hominid Sites of Sterkfontein, Swartkrans, Kromdraai and environs
  • The Mapungubwe Cultural Landscape
  • Vredefort Dome
  • The Cape Floral Region
  • The Richtersveld Cultural and Botanical Landscape

Purpose

The purpose of Heritage Day is to expose people to the differences, to enable us to understand, respect and appreciate other cultures. There are positive things in every culture. If we can adopt or even just accept what is good in other cultures, we will grow as individuals and contribute to a more unified South Africa.

Conclusion

South Africa has its ups and its downs but one thing is always certain. When needed our rainbow nation comes together as a force to be reckoned with. Happy Heritage Day, South Africa.

Mom guilt, we’ve all been there!

Mom guilt, we’ve all been there!

Mom guilt, we’ve all been there!

 

Where is “there” you ask. “There” is the in between sweet spot where you have a flourishing career on the one side, you are the boss, the main tool in the shed, and the go to woman for everything, and then the other side where you are supermom, mom in a million, mom there for every step, every meal, every bath, every laugh, every new obstacle faced and overcome. It’s the sweet spot. The one I am still searching for.

I still look back and have a good laugh, before my little girl was born my maternity leave was two weeks. Yes, two weeks. I had no idea why everyone looked at me like I was crazy. I was going to be the woman who had her baby, had two weeks at home but then would be back on my feet, working from home or the office, baby in routine, sleeping well and this new bundle of joy would be slotting into my well planned out mommy and work sweet spot. Well two weeks, became one month, and one month turned into three months and three months turned into five months. And then I was ready to roll out on my own. Dress for success, leave my baby at home with the nanny and go out and conquer the world. And then there was a feeling, a feeling I had never felt before, what could it be? Enter mom guilt.

 

Up to this point, I had focused on spending time with the nanny so that I felt comfortable to leave my little one at home, prepped every evening for the next day to ensure nothing was forgotten and every meal planned. My super-nanny was amazing, and my baby girl was so happy, she wouldn’t even notice if I left home for a while. But still I would sit at work, or during the day find myself feeling guilty for number one enjoying the time to myself, for being able to sit and get my work done and not just be a mom for the day. And secondly for not being at home, worrying that she was going to do something, and I wasn’t there to see it, for not being the one feeding and changing and putting her to sleep.  I started to question if I was being a good mom. If I should look at rather being a stay at home mom and rather not have to deal with my own guilt.

 

While dealing with my mom guilt and on my way to resignation station, I started trying to find a balance, finding the sweet spot as I put it. When does work come first and when does my child and family come first? And the simple truth is that my family will always come first but I also come first, me, myself, mom. I enjoy my job and working with people and enjoy adult conversation. I also have to have a place. And that place is during the day while doing my job or running errands for my family and in the mornings and afternoons with my little girl.

 

Being a mom is not easy, it is probably the hardest task I have ever encountered and the toughest full-time job, I cannot resign from. When things get tough, I have to dig in my heals and carry on. If I have to give anyone advise on how to deal with mom guilt it would be:

 

Number 1: don’t feel bad about having mom guilt

It is going to happen, and it does not make you any worse of a person or mom. Its normal to feel sad that you are not with your little one.

 

Number 2: enjoy your time away

I have found that being away for a couple of hours, allows me to cherish the time that I am at home more, and I am happier for it. I allow myself to give 100% at work and then 100% at home.

 

Number 3: give yourself enough time at home

Two weeks is not enough time, believe me, you need a good solid five months at home to get to know your little one, be with your nanny and your little one together and build up a relationship between the three of you, and by the five months mark you will be ready to step back into the world as you, not as a mom, but as you.

 

Number 4: know that your little one will always be number 1

No matter where you spend the day, you are going home to your little one and your family at the end of it all. That is where your heart will always belong.

 

Number 5: someone else’s opinion doesn’t matter

I am of the opinion that others make us feel more guilty than we need to. Try not to listen to what others think and what they have done. You know yourself and you know your baby. If you are not comfortable with something, don’t do it. If it works for you and your baby, then it’s the right thing to do.

 

Number 6: take time

Time is all the medicine you will need. Take each day as it comes, and you will find your rhythm.

 

So I missed resignation station and went straight onto finding my sweet spot. Some days are better than others but each and every day I get up and try my best. I still evaluate my days and weeks and if something doesn’t work or doesn’t feel right, I don’t force it, I merely try it a different way until it fits.

 

You do you, Mommy, everything else will slot in as it needs to, and soon you will be finding your own “sweet spot.”

The Unstoppable Force of a Motivated Women

The Unstoppable Force of a Motivated Women

The Unstoppable Force of a Motivated Women

 

Overall, becoming an entrepreneur is a very daunting task for most individuals, and rightly so. While the individual’s success might be seen so easily, what doesn’t get seen is the sacrifice, long hours, the having to make tough choices, the commitment to learning new skills, the self – doubt, the failures nor the amount of coffee it takes to get to that point of success.

Women in business very often have the added pressure to find the balance between perusing their passion with their role of being a wife, mom, friend, daughter, etc. This daily struggle to be the best version of themselves is, however, what makes a woman in business so unstoppable.

 

Paving the way

Growing up I was always fascinated with powerful, successful women and many hours where spent reading bibliographies and news articles on women such as Margaret Thatcher, Oprah Winfrey, and Esteé Lauder while daydreaming of how I wanted to have my version of their success one day. For years women have been showing the world how resilient and powerful they can really be, paving the way for us to be able to freely and confidently step out of our comfort zones and conquer any sector or industry we choose to enter. Aside from these powerful women, I have mentioned, my biggest inspiration and example was my mom. A woman who left her birth country behind to support her husband in trying to build a better life for themselves and their children, she used to work 12 -14 hour days in the business with my dad and would get home and be a full hands-on wife and mom. Today more than ever, I am convinced she is secretly superhuman because I don’t know how she did it all on her own but aside from that I realised it was an ‘ordinary’ woman who paved the way to my entrepreneurial journey.

 

Ordinary, the new Extraordinary

This past women’s day, I was fortunate enough to spend the morning with a diverse group of female entrepreneurs.  We started the morning with as ordinary women with general chatter and introductions, we left as powerful, motivated and united women in business. After listening to each women’s story, learning about their challenges, their different skills, their motivations, their failures, the heartaches they have had to endure, their successes, I have never been prouder to be a woman! FH Sin put it beautifully saying “her soul is fierce, her heart is brave, her mind is strong”. These women, like various other I have the privilege to work with daily all seem to have the following seemingly ordinary characteristics that make them extraordinary:

  • They are deeply passionate
  • They do not expect perfection, they assess, learn, do their best and adjust the plan if needed
  • They are not afraid to take risks
  • They believe they are a success
  • They practice gratitude

 

If it was easy, everyone would do it

Some people define an Entrepreneur as a crazy person who risks their own money for freedom, rather than exchanging their freedom for money – and I have to agree that takes a special individual to take the risk to go out and build their own legacy and their own version of success. To all my fellow women in business I would like to say thank you for being such an inspiration to those around you, keep showing up when most people would quit, believe you can – because you will and no matter how you feel, get up, dress up, show and never give up!

Celebrating women’s month like the BO$$ you are

Celebrating women’s month like the BO$$ you are

Celebrating women’s month like the BO$$ you are

 

A life coach commented something that was really interesting to me the other day.  It was about living your dream life.  You know, the one where you drive the Porché, have the 8 bedroom house and earn 6 figures.  Somehow this month’s topic reminded me of that. Celebrating women’s month by being the BOSS you are meant to be.

We often get side-tracked by our work.  As women, we are working bees and always make sure everything runs smoothly be it at work or at home we never just step back and make it about us for a change.  If you’re like me you don’t invest in yourself too often, well lady it’s time to step up.

Now look, I’m not saying go crazy and spend your savings on a new car but there are loads of things you can do to spoil yourself into the life that you dream for yourself. How?  Well…

First step is to plan it out. Write down everything in detail.  How do you look, what do you wear, how do you walk, what do you drive, where do you live, how is your relationships, how does your day go. The more detail the better.  This is your ideal life, the best you that you can possibly be.

Once you have that down, start by taking each thing and thinking about what you can do today to get a little bit closer to that? This is where the fun comes in! A couple of ideas could be, get your nails done or a facial, take that car you have in mind for a test drive, put your yellow high heels on and go have lunch at that spiffy restaurant you’ve been pining for.  The list is endless and dependent on what you’ve got on your list.  Some things take a bit more effort, like improving on your relationships but if you take it step by step you’ll see an improvement in no time.

This list isn’t just something to aspire to but it becomes goals that you can live towards each day.  Make a point of it to do at least one thing each month that draws you closer.  This keeps you in the game.

So even though this is women’s month, see it as a chance to become the warrior you are inside and start living like the CEO or President of your life.  Women are a force to be reckoned with but we are too busy backstage making sure everyone else is on their game and are living their best lives that we seldom have time or energy to work on our own.

This month I challenge you to make your list and start a bit of self-care in the right direction.  Working on your goals a little bit every day gets you much closer than writing them down in January and never looking at them again.

Take yourself out for a change and celebrate the awesomeness that is you, I dare you!

SARS Implemented Changes – 3 Reasons You Need to Rethink Submitting Your Annual Personal Income Tax Return Today

SARS Implemented Changes – 3 Reasons You Need to Rethink Submitting Your Annual Personal Income Tax Return Today

SARS Implemented Changes – 3 Reasons You Need to Rethink Submitting Your Annual Personal Income Tax Return Today

 

This year SARS has not only updated their e-filing platform but also made some other notable announcements. Today we’re looking at what this means for the individual taxpayer and if these changes are something to be worried about. Let’s dig in!

The Announcement

In June this year SARS announced that if you (that would be all personal income taxpayers) earn less than R500,000 a year there would be no need to submit a tax return. This limit was set at R350,000 previously. While this sounded like an announcement to celebrate to most, there are hidden implications that few have thought of when they started celebrating not having to submit returns to SARS anymore. Now it also needs to be said that there are conditions attached to this announcement and this was the first bit of crucial information that I saw neglected as people started sharing this announcement in great celebratory fashion on social media. I had a distinct “uh oh” moment when I saw the comments of course, with total disregards for the conditions accompanying this announcement!

3 Possible Implications

At the moment, there are five possible implications that could be highlighted as concerns. So, why would not submitting a return this year get you into hot water later or have you pulling your hair out?

 

#1 An unbroken record

If you have been submitting returns for the last few years, you are already in the routine of submitting your returns. So why not continue to do so? Yes, I know you hate dealing with SARS! To tell you the truth very few people find it enjoyable, do they? The thing is, up to date you’ve had an unbroken record, don’t you think it’s worth it to keep it that way? What will happen if SARS suddenly changes their minds…AGAIN? And now you have to suddenly run around, compiling docs because you slacked off with your filing… No, that’s not for me!

 

#2 Need a Tax Clearance Certificate?

You might need one you. Why? To borrow money! Should there ever be a need for you to borrow money of a long term nature i.e. a mortgage for a property, you will usually be requested to provide a TCC (Tax Clearance Certificate) which can only be obtained if ALL returns are submitted and up to date with no outstanding payments, penalties or interest of course.

 

#3 You won’t get your refund

I left the most meaningful one (to me and of course all sole proprietors like me) for last. If you have been bargaining on that refund cause you overpaid on tax you won’t receive one cent if you don’ submit that return.

 

In summary

I hope you found this blog informative! Remember if you have any concerns or specific queries please do contact your registered tax practitioner with your questions. Make sure you are informed. Everything isn’t as black and white as it seems. With SARS in any case!